Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Which One Are You?






The North Wind and the Sun had an argument one day. They disputed which of them was the stronger. A traveler came along the road at that time, and the Sun suggested a way to resolve the argument. Whoever was able to cause the traveler to remove his coat would be the stronger. The Wind accepted the challenge and the Sun hid himself behind a cloud. The Wind began to blow. Yet the harder he blew, the more the traveler clutched his coat about himself. The Wind sent rain, even hail. The traveler clung even more desperately to his coat. Finally, in despair, the Wind gave up. The Sun came out and began to shine all his glory upon the traveler. Quite soon the man had removed his coat. "How did you do that?", asked the Wind. "It was easy," said the Sun. "I lit the day." Through gentleness I got my way."





as i raise my girls, my desire for them is to be able to keep their gentle and soft spirits, yet keep a firm foundation as they travel though their awesome journey....choosing to do right, just becos it's right, not becos it's popular or easy, listening to God even when things are going perfect, learning that they only have the power to change themselves and to never attempt to dominate or control others.





in my experience it is only thru our choices and actions in our lives, that others may be able to look through us to see God's glory.




unfortunately, there will be many times in our lives that we will never see the full effect of just exactly how much we have been been a wind of change in so many lives. for my daughters, i challange you to walk in what may be one of the most difficult, but very much needed strengths...gentleness.

62 Comments:

Blogger Star said...

I really liked that :) Nice pictures too! I'm starting to post some of the pics from my trip... Drop by some time! :)

3:05 PM  
Blogger Jon Cox said...

WONDERFUL POST!!!! Alway love visiting your blog, its always so inspirational! :o) Have a wonderful weekend!

6:48 PM  
Blogger Chel said...

I have always loved the story of the sun and the wind. I'm finding in this new phase of my life that I feel really open to the possibilities around me, and I'm trying to make sure that my choices are ones that will allow me to be best used by God. May I also remember that gentleness will get me farther than other approaches.

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Blogger Kimber said...

God has been really speaking to me about being more gentle with my children - and taking more time to really foster a greater atmosphere of "joy" and "love" even in the midst of "correcting" or "changing" their behavior at times...so thank you so much for this post - once again it was very timely for me!

And of course, I LOVE LOVE LOVE the pics of the girls and of you and your hubby :)

My little guy starts kindergarten tomorrow - pray for me...I am sure I will be crying...why do they have to grow up so fast???

Miss ya all!

6:30 PM  
Blogger Jim said...

I'm glad you posted that. I really hadn't thought much about gentleness and being gentle for a while.
..
Galations 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.
24 And those who are Christ's have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

7:59 PM  
Blogger Corry said...

Great post!
It's not always easy to be gentle but I think it will go long ways and have a greater effect, along with love, then anything else.

God's Grace.

4:01 PM  
Blogger Ryan S. said...

May your family keep trusting in Him.

"Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He who calls you is faithful, who also will do it."
—1 Thessalonians 5:22-24

8:07 PM  
Blogger Jada's Gigi said...

what's that old saying "you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar" Of course that would be sweetness but I think the same principle applies...:)

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Blogger Bek said...

i like the matchin bandanas pic!! its a keeper!

1:33 PM  
Blogger Gordon Cloud said...

This brought back a lot of memories. When I was a little boy, I had this huge book of Aesop's fables and as I recall, this was one of them.

Great post.

7:42 PM  
Blogger Belizegial said...

It really helps to be gentle especially when dealing with people who are under stress. Lately, I had a situation at the workplace where it took a lot of gentleness to prevent a physical confrontation between two very aggressive and stressed out employees.

In the past, I have been the wind trying to bluster and blow my way in, but with experience have found that being 'the sun' is ten times better and more effective.

Keep smilin and writing.

Enid

p.s. if you don't mind I would like to add your blog as a link on my site. Would this be okay?

11:01 AM  
Blogger Paula said...

Great post Lisa!!!! I need to walk in gentleness. I'm going through a stage right now where I want to challenge my hubby's leadership or maybe be in control. I don't know what it is for sure, but I do know gentleness is the cure.

2:33 PM  
Blogger Jean-Luc Picard said...

Well put together, Lisa, with some great pictures. Very inspirational as well.

12:30 PM  
Blogger Jean-Luc Picard said...

Well put together, Lisa, with some great pictures. Very inspirational as well.

12:31 PM  
Blogger Nic said...

RO, what beatiful pictures of the family! What a lovely post - as usual. :)

6:43 PM  
Blogger Kate said...

Your blog is awesome! I just stumbled on it from you daugters blog - where I stumbled on hers from Rabenstranger! I'm in GA too! I'll be back for sure :)
PS - your daughters are just all so adorable!

4:53 PM  
Blogger Hattigrace said...

Gentle. Hmmm, I forget that so often. Thank you for the reminder.

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Blogger Jim said...

Hi RO. Hope all you guys are ok. It's been a while since we have heard from you. I check on you a lot. Again, stay with it, we will wait. And pray for you all too.
..

11:46 PM  
Blogger Paula said...

Miss you...

2:04 PM  
Blogger HeiressChild said...

geat post. makes me think of when children find a fallen bird, how gentle they are. or when we handle a newborn baby, how gentle we are. that same gentleness should be a part of our everyday lives, but of course, like everything else, it's molded into us from our everyday experiences.

sometimes we even have gentle winds that blow. the key word again is "gentle." thank you for sharing.

your family is so beautiful.

sylvia

8:18 PM  
Blogger Erin said...

You're no_average_girl's mom, right? Well I was just wondering, did she delete her blog? Because I can't find it anymore...

10:12 AM  
Blogger Farm Girl said...

I've noticed that, too. I can't find No Average Girl's blog. Just wondering.

Bethany

1:17 PM  
Blogger Corbin J. Stilwell said...

Hey you,

I'm amazed at the love you have for your daughters! No matter what you are going through. I pray that the Father from Everlasting will continue to give you the same gentleness that you so long your daughters to have.

I am praying for you!

Your Loving Brother in Christ,
Corbin

3:25 PM  
Blogger Belizegial said...

Hello Lisa!

Just checking in to see how you're doing. Hope all is well with you and your family today.

God's blessings be with you now and always.

Enid

8:40 PM  
Blogger Hattigrace said...

You okay? Been a long time since we have heard from you.

1:52 PM  
Blogger Bek said...

radical one, where have you gone/??

7:45 AM  
Blogger Crystal said...

Where have you and Meagan gone?

10:07 AM  
Blogger Gina said...

Oh I need this. Gentleness, yes indeed.

8:21 PM  
Blogger Gordon Cloud said...

Hi, Lisa, just wanted to drop by and say hello and that we have been missing you and Maegan in blogland.

6:33 AM  
Blogger Jean-Luc Picard said...

Lisa, you are invited to my 300th post which will appear Sunday night British time until Tuesday night. Hope to see you there!

3:47 AM  
Blogger jel said...

Hi there,
just checking too see how y'all are doing ? :)


Blessings

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Blogger Let Grace and Mercy flow . said...

Okay wanted to tell you that your awesome. I am so glad that I am back i miss your amazing wisdom. Oh yeah I descided to homeschool.

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Blogger Kimber said...

You are missed!

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Blogger Crystal said...

We need a post girlie! Miss ya!

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Anonymous Katie (Andrew's mom) said...

Hi Lisa,

How is your family doing? I recently read a lot of your previous posts--amazing---you should keep posting! Actually, I guess I've kind of zoned out of blog land too: it's hard enough to keep up with the rest of life without having a blog to update, right?! :-)

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